Sunday, March 4

short weekend

its been a relatively short weekend. too many things to do, just too little time.
the cny is over *sigh*

anyway we had our weekly maj session yesterday but more 热闹 than normal. with 2 partners hovering the table and another 2 frenz over to watch soccer, we literally had a football team hanging out on a sat night. i like! of coz, it helped that Man U won with their ass luck. which of coz we didnt mind at all.

anyway received a sms early in the morning (very rare on a sunday).

wil: hey you guys are on the new paper today. its about some wedding photo shoot you guys had. but it says Mr and Mrs Tammy Yap.
me:??!! oops . rave will flip when he sees it.

haha. anyway it was a genuine mistake made by the reporter. but he saved his own ass by mentioning Mr Rave Tan and Miss Tammy Yap somewhere in the article.
anyway this article was meant to be like one yr back when Kelvin asked if he could send in our photo as requested by the papers. and the reporter only called me sat night. so reporters do last min work. he asked me like 10 minutes worth of question but put the silliest comment i made on papers!! *aaarrrgghhh* i feel dumb. how do i tell the world i said what i said only because i was distracted playing maj. and i din mean it in that way. bleah.

Saturday, March 3

just another hongbao draw

judging from the places that the winning bets came from
i aint even going to bother going through the tiks.

total damage : $35

anyhow besides the fact that i have lost all hope in buying that bungalow along mountbatten,give my love ones a million each, it was still an incredible night.


first pic of the night

kok cheng's birthday @ partyworld

my baby always happy to pose

my favourite budz

j & js' birthday @ Barfly

my fav pic of the night

will post the rest when im not so sleepy.

Friday, March 2

what are my chances


one in a million?
*pray*

minor mishap

we had a minor mishap this evening. and it suddenly dawned on me....

while ransacking through the cabinets

mil: 你在找什么
me: rave的眼镜断了。有没有superglue
mil: hiyah, 每次玩到那么处鲁
me:??

and then it occurred to me. how in the world did she know we broke his specs while having a minor wrestling session.it could have easily been stepped on, or sat on or maybe just old specs wearing out.

and so they always say, you can never keep anything from your mum.
they know your deepest secrets.

pretty little things

OMG.



these are too pretty to eat

Thursday, March 1

Analogy of Love

"Love is like 2 ppl filling up a piece of paper...


A relationship starts off as a clear piece of paper. A guy and a gal agree to write on that piece of paper. When it starts, both are excited, as its their time working together.

They fill up the paper with the best of things they can think of.
Sometimes the guy writes more, sometimes the gal writes more.
Some people write without thinking much, some writes after some thought.

As the writing carries on, it gets more & more tiring. The couples have to be motivated to keep on writing. This is the commitment and responsibility of a relationship. As long as the urge to write continues, the writing will never end. It will carry on paper after paper until pen?s ink run out. This is the eternal love till deaths do us apart?

Some couples prefer to write together, some write their own & combine the efforts. Neither side should be the one only one writing; else ink may get blocked for the party who writes non-stop. Too tired?

The character of the person is like the handwriting on the paper?
Everyone has his or her handwriting. It is very difficult to change one?s handwriting. Not impossible but it takes a lot of time and hard work.

The outcome may not be desirable. It is also difficult to imitate the handwritings of another person. The most one can do is to be tidier or many untidy in their handwritings. Sometimes, to make the writing on the paper look more presentable, it could be necessary for either side to slightly alter the style of his/her handwritings?

A mistake in love is like a smudge on the paper? Whether purposely or accidently a smudge is a smudge. No matter how well the writing has gone. So far or how lovely is the content, a smudge will leave a mark no matter how well you cover it (eraser, liquid paper, etc..). Whether to keep on writing will depend on the perception of the couple. Whether they mind the content more or the outlook of the piece of work more.

Worst case is when the paper is torn. It?ll leave a very ugly mark. Well, the decision lies with the couple?

To break-off is to stop writing? Many reasons can lead to this ending. One party could be the one writing non-stop and really too tired to carry on anymore. One party or both could be unsatisfied with the content or really dislike what each other is writing (it takes time to know the writing style of someone, it could be halfway through the paper before it is known). Or a smudge exists and either one or both mind (depend on their level of perfectionism). Or it could be what they are writing and what they are contradiciting each other. It can also be the case where one party finds another partner to write with?

Other analogies? Pen users are serious lovers. Those who use pencil like to test things out first. Some even write drafts with other people (many timers). After a breakup, a photocopy of writings so far is made and this is given to a party while the other keeps the original (for memories). Or it could be either or neither will keep the writings. It could also be the original work lies there waiting for the original writers to be back.

A well-doned masterpiece could be bound into a book and kept forever. Likewise in some cases, it may be pieces of paper lying around. Different people write different things and have different outcomes. In the case of people going through many relationships, it?s just like changing partners to work with.

Some may write things according to the past experiences or have new ideas. While writing, the couples may change their pens. In a new relationship, one party might mind that his or her partner?s pen has been used by other people before.

It also requires both parties to play their part to keep the relationship forever lasting. You only live once. Ask yourself, what do you really want to do and achieve in life?"

post phuket

its been about 3 weeks since we came back from phuket.
and our neglect have started to show. only now.
we are going through the skin renewal process.
and i feel like a snake.
so i thought i needed a quick remedy and decided to zip down to Guardians.
found this

someone in office commented that i smelled like Walking Chocolate.
(apparently it was a sweet comment)
it cost something like less than$7
its gooey so you feel like it really moisturizes
and the best part .... it was the only one left of its kind on the shelves.
hee.
i am a Jergens convert.

i hate...

i hate when i cant find maj kakis
i hate when i cant watch my fav tv programme
i hate when i cant sleep at night
and most of all i hate when my loved ones are upset
this is not a hate post. neither am i lamenting about my life.
and i cannot describe the hurt i feel when my sis is upset.
i wish i could drive them over. or push them off the building.
or maybe even use my bare hands to strangle them silly.
just so that my sis will feel better.
its pointless when i cant do anything to make her feel better.
i just hope she knows that no matter what, she'll have us to love.
we are still young... and have a long way ahead of us.
加油!加油!

*drool*

eye candy



but always second to my man



*wink*

important to have friends


as much as it is about the two of us
i will make it a point to meet up more often
to attend more parties
and important to play more maj.
maj gives you the chance to interact over hours
hee.